Also... feel free to lay the 2x4s on me if you like. I have already done that to myself though. Like Jack pointed out, I know enough about this stuff after 5+ months to know that words and to even give the advice. So I am able to see the mistakes that I have made over the past 2 weeks.
With that said, I'm pretty sure that my sitch was going to backslide either way.
I guess that it really doesn't matter at this point.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce