I found some friends to spend time with during the day while the kids were in school and went to the gym, shopping, out to lunch and then just focused on the kids in the evening. Less and less of my time later on was spent on my h. In fact, I had gotten rid of my cell phone for a long time too and that helped with texting and all that because I just didn't have a phone to do that, so I no longer was waiting around for my h to call or text. That actually was a blessing since before I lost my job I was tied to my phone and waiting and wondering when h would call or text.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"