Well, the fictional accounts clearly go both ways. I found your thread and replied. I have just one question for you. What is your goal now?

I don't know. I'm staying dark a bit longer. Try to build a relationship of some sort with W, at minimum so we can have a workable relationship for the kids. I hope we can get to a point where we can talk again. And if it's truly over... I would love to at least be friendly and laugh together regarding our children as they grow. I don't want to hate eachother... I think we are going down that road.


Me:39 W:31 M:8
D6,3,19mo S5
I filed D 07-2010