Of course she feels trapped! Who wouldn't? Thank God she's not abusive. I just see such a recipe for disaster in having 4 kids (the kids are not the problem, the way YOU "chose" to have them IS, and the division of labor was very unfair to her, for a long time.) I assume you now "get this"...right?
Yes... Makes me disappointed in myself really... But I did try to make up for it... I really did.
You have some 180's to do. What are they?
I have not concerned myself as much about money as I once did Stop arguing, blaming, no R talk I got myself in way better shape... Was 245 at one point... Now 175... New wardrobe... Keep hair groomed more often, No longer bite nails... Eat better... No longer drink coffee etc. Doing my best to GAL... go out way more... Just went to a learning course and got my motorcycle license... Plan to get one after divorce I've become more approachable... I have tried to extend a fig leaf to W on many occasion I think I've moved on pretty well, of course it takes time and I could use more... Progressing though
