Sex??? OMG Not another pregnancy! Also, you said you lost 75 lbs. May I assume you needed to lose a lot of weight? So in her eyes, is it possible that to her, you let yourself go? Did she stay in shape after all those kids?

Yes I did. It was hard to workout without imposing on W. My mindset as I began to see problems was to put myself on hold and cater to her needs because of what I put her through. She got in shape yes, because I dis my best to give her time to herself because I felt she needed it more than I did.


Me:39 W:31 M:8
D6,3,19mo S5
I filed D 07-2010