Originally Posted By: Truegritter
at some point she has to start taking responsibility.


This is faulty thinking...

And really unfair to her....

Becuase you KNOW she can't do that right now, maybe not ever...

And yet...

YOU tried to force it...

Originally Posted By: True
I didn't need to see her in her MLC glory.


I disagree...

I think you did...

To fuel YOUR fire...

Grit,

I was with you, until I read your posts these last few days...

Now, I'm not so sure...

And if I wonder...

And the others wonder...

Maybe you should too...

From those of us who have been there...

When you are done, you won't have to convince yourself you are done...

You may, however, find that you are trying to convince yourself that you are not...


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox