There is something mental that goes on in the WAS, as is explained when reading about PEAS. It is different from the heart of a woman (or man) who is forced to leave the MR due to some other means of separation (i.e. military). It is not a broken heart of love, but it's one that is filled with things that do not belong in a beloved's attidude. Coldness, selfishness, fantasizing, illogical, on & on we could go with those types of things. And, I've noticed that many WAW's want to change their status from M to S over-night and seem to think they can remain BBF with the LBH.
I remember a LBH saying that the WAW has been feeling or thinking this way for a particular time frame, whereas, the LBH doesn't have a clue about her intentions and is not given time to adjust to the bomb.
She will probably do a lot that will cause you shock, hurt, disappointment, and a host of emotions. Try to realize that she probably won't just wake up one day and it will all be back to normal. Your M can be saved! The work is long and stressful for both people in the M.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
