With my W every time I fought the D, it just emboldened her and drove her further down the path.
This reminds me of one thing I've picked up during this journey I've written down on page of quotes - "What you resists persists."
Originally Posted By: greenblue90
See my theory for WAW's is that the fantasy of running away is way more appealing than the actual truth. Let her push this as far as she wants, show her it is not what you want, but respect her wishes. By doing this she will have to realize that she has to do this, because she wants to do this for herself, not because she wants to run away from a bad version of you. (The bad version of you, that you are supposed to be getting rid of through DB, see how it works!)
gb I think you are spot on with this!
Originally Posted By: greenblue90
This WILL take time, and may even go as far as actually getting the D. She may also never turn back, but in my opinion this is the best you can do if you want at least a "chance" at saving this.
Unfortunately I think you are right with this one, too.
