This is effectively what Jody (the DB coach) told me. I have written the "letter of release" which does as you say (understand you think you need to do this, here is what I have learned and am learning, hope we can still be friends). I can't decide if I should send it now after she's just gotten set up or after a week has passed and the flush of "HA, I HAVE ESCAPED MY HORRIBLE BONDS!" has faded a bit.
But I still don't have much hope. Meeting with lawyers to be prepped, and my sister is all set to stay with me a month and help me through this rough spot. Meanwhile W just posts on FB about finding people to go to movies with.
(I have at least "hidden" her on FB so she can see my updates but I don't see hers, but if she gets too saucy and I hear it from friends, I'll properly unfriend her. A few of my friends already have).
