You know the value of the words and advice, enough that you can even say it and give it to others.
A word about safety nets.
They allow youself to fail.
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Is it worth it? What is it all for? Have I gone as far as I can with this?
Sort of the LBS version of: ILYBINILWY
Is it worth it? No not yet, not if you're asking.
What is it all for? ... similar answer to the above. I always saw it as a wakeup call, albeit with a baseball bat, and wrecking ball. Life lessons suckk for a reason; so hopefully you never forget them.
Have I gone as far as I can with this? Personally? Not until you can answer the first 2 questions on your own because they are how you feel.
Thanks Jack.
I'm trying to get myself to view EVERYTHING as a test...
My W testing my resolve, my love for her, and my changes...
And life testing me...
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce