Z - I don't think there's ever a good time for that type of e-mail. Mine came over two years ago (at the time, W and I were under the same roof but in different bedrooms) while S and I were on a weekend camping trip (rainy and in the 30's most of the time). Best not to check your e-mail until the morning or contact H until you had a good night's sleep...
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009