Fast forward to the present. She informed about filing for divorce at the end of January, 2011. She cited "I'm the giver in the relationship and I'm tired of giving", "I have no more energy left to put into this marriage", "I don't love you anymore", and "I told lies to myself about our relationship". Any attempts for reconciliation went on deaf ears. Disturbing to me was the steps she had taken in advance to prepare for the divorce (e.g., spreadsheet of action items -- separate bank accounts, finding apartment, legal filings), it was/is all very clinical.
Wow, it looks like WAW's have a genetic link to say the same things. wawinla, I am sorry you are in this mess. These forums serve as a refuge for you to find yourself.
My wife said the same exact things, especially about being the 'giver'.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
