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Be fair and calmly resolve this.


^^^ This.

It is for you and your W to decide what is appropriate for how things will be split.

The important thing is how you go about.

DON'T get defensive.

DON'T accuse.

LISTEN.

Present your point of view calmly and without emotion.

UNDERSTAND her position.

BE fair.

BE reasonable.

BITS

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