Starsky, this is the most personal of decisions, and she has a DB coach. You've made your point, a lot. I don't happen to agree with you but since she has a DB coach AND a past involving this very issue, I figure this is something I don't need to comment upon. But since you do, often, I will say that Abbey knows about DBing and has resources and we are not able to judge what goes on in the dark between any two people.
And Abby has been stuck -- a lot -- in the same endless cycle, and I'm trying to help her, just as you are.
Are my opinions and advice any less valid than yours, 25?
Abby is free to accept or reject ANY of our advice, as always. If all she needs is the DB coach, then what's the purpose of the forum?
I will leave my views on exposure out of this, since they are not allowed anymore, but I will say this:
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I am not saying you should cover or lie for the cheater . . .
I completely agree. And Abby is going to have a tough decision to make if her D17 asks her point-blank, as to whether she lies to her or tells her the truth about what her father has been doing.
