Affair

[awest1217]

Assuming again. If she said to you, I am filing for D and I am going to have a good way to talk to you about things with the kids, then I would say yes it is about the D, but she hasn't said that. Now it might happen, but it might not. She may actually be looking for a place to vent in a productive way. Maybe she is looking for someone to tell her this can still work. Maybe she is looking for someone who can help her understand her feelings.

I will say good for her in that she hasn't rushed into doing anything. All of this is positive for you. She may not want to talk yet, but her not going completely the other way is good as well.