WAW Please Help Me.

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Update: We have spoken since I made the "no need to call It's done" comment. She said she tried to apologize. I would not accept it. I told her that SHE INSISTED THAT SHE WOULD CALL EITHER WAY AND DID NOT. I said that the lack of follow through was not right. This to me is her "controlling" this situation. Like in your face MoFo.

I said just do what you say you are going to do. Simple.

She says she has no emotion. Is not mad, etc. I have now hired my own lawyer. I have now also changed my mind on some of the asset division issues. This will probably turn ugly once the lawyers start going at it.

I saw her truck in the strip mall where my grocery store is located. It was pure coincidence. She was getting her nails done. I went in. We had a brief conversation. Mutual apologies, etc.

Son had a concert. I was in coffee shop near his school. She stops in. A coincidence, I assume. We have a friendly conversation. Superficial: how's work, how has your running been going, etc. A guy from our church came in. We were talking with him. He was talking about his kids, mom, etc. Then out of the blue he starting talking about a couple who had been married for 25 years was separated. He talked about how important marriage/relationships are. How you must talk to each other, pray together, etc. My W's jaw dropped and her eyes were wide. This guy does not know about our sitch. He is a very sincere and kind christian man.

When we left the coffee shop my W said "that was unbelievable." I said "I cannot even comment on that."

Sat next to each other during the concert, friendly conversation. I took the opportunity to leave first with son after brief reception. I Did not linger. We said goodbye. She looked sad.

The journey continues.