Found text in phone yesterday, after she put phone down she left the message screen up and I walked past and saw conv between w and OM, saying they loved each other and all that blah blah. I confronted her about it, and she said she was not leaving me for him. I disagreed and left it alone without anymore conv. I confirmed what I thought was going on and now I feel stronger to move on with my life. She says he has already left his w, but there is no indication of that from facebook pics on his w profile. Seems like another normal happy family. I guess it time for her to take the journey and see things for what they truly are.