H just rang. Here's the convo:

M: hey
H: I owe u an apology for the other night
M: why?
H: I was disrepectful
M: thank you
H: I suppose I owe my son an apology too. I'll do that when I see him
M: ok.
Then he started talking about what day/s he should see S3.
M: ur mum asked me for coffee today. She wanted us to discuss visitation with S3 this weekend when I pick him up. R u happy to do that?
H: yes
M: great. Also do u still want to pick up S3 tomorrow from daycare?
H: yes
M: ok. But I'm also going to be there because he's having seperation anxiety. S3 has been saying "u promise u won't leave me". I made him I promise I wouldn't so I'm going to keep that promise. I will drop him off and pick him up.
H: seperation anxiety with u?
M: both of us
H: maybe u should just pick him up.
M: happy for u to be there.
H: ok. I'll meet u there at 4:30 cos I've got an interview at 12pm
M: ok. Thanks again for the apology. I appreciate. I'll see u tomorrow.

It felt nice that he apologised. Did he mean it? Don't know. Does it matter? No
But for today at least he apologised. smile


W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11