hello all, its been a while since i have been able to get on here. here is the newest chapter in my life.
My wife has not made up her mind yet to come home or not. She has not taken the kids anywhere near the OM, and says she wont until she makes up her mind. So she has been having visits at our friends place.
Now we had coffee on tuesday and we sat in the park and she was suffering from a headache. She asked me to rub her neck and shoulders and i did and relieved alot of stress for her. Her comment was " no one knows my body like you!" i said nothing. It was a great hour of just talking. She asked if she could have all of her visits at the house. Including her weekend visits. She would stay over. Again i picked up on her wording, "this will be a good place for us to start."
To me that was a hugh baby step in a positive direction. I am confused as the she is still living with the OM, but I am trying not to get pushy and possessive. I am trying to be nice and kind, and the kids are asking her constantly when she is coming home.
I have asked the kids to back off a bit, but they dont want to listen to me on this front. Any pointers on how to get the kids to back off a bit? i dont want my wife to be pressured at this stage. So any words of wisdom, please share.
