I'm not sure you're in the right situation to have that kind of dialogue. But, if you need her to back off and quit being so critical, I think you do need to politely stick up for yourself. If she's being snotty to save her arguments for leaving, it's not your job to just take it, but know that she is trying to justify what she did however she can. Someday, soon, hopefully, she'll be able to admit why it is so upsetting for her. (that you'd change, that this all didnt have to happen, that maybe she was wrong)
AJ - I wish it were the right situation to be so candid. I like the idea of protecting myself, but I need to be very careful and wait for the proper opportunity. I can see that causing a major escalation.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
