Country, being such a newbie to DB techniques, I'm always hesitant to comment on a situation, lest I give bad advice. But I honestly see reasons for you to have some measured optimism. In fact, I wish I was in your shoes with my partner as you are with your W. Don't lose faith is all I wanted to say.


Me: 35
Him: 43
Together: 19 1/2 years
1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011
2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011
He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011
He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011