Thanks everyone. Cyrena, now I understand it. You explained it well.

W just sent me a text and said that she wants S16 Friday - Sunday this weekend instead of the usual Saturday - Sunday. She usually spends Friday nights with OM. I figure that this weekend must be her "time of the month" weekend. I'm not trying to be gross. I'm just writing down my feelings. She also said that next weekend she will not have S16 at all because she will be "out of town."

Damn her.

The funny thing is, she thinks all of this is just perfectly okay because, to use her words, "I was already on my way out of the marriage anyway."

Sometimes I hate the b!tch. Now is one of those times.

Tad

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13