I think when I came to the realization that I was no longer concerned with the outcome of this. When I could accept whatever happened. Put it all at risk...
THAT is when you know you won't have regrets.
Easy there Chief...
Nobody is tryin to steal the last lollipop out of your Easter basket...
Maybe you can accept either outcome, and maybe this really is your decision...
You just seem to be using a lot of fuel coming out of the gate...
It's hard to come up on plane right from the Dock...
Most of the time, one has to go through a "No Wake Zone" first....
Originally Posted By: Denver
That may be the very definition of knowing when we are done. When we just don't care anymore. IMO, there is nothing wrong with that.
When one can walk away with the same emotion expelled, as walking to the mailbox...
That is when you know.....
It is not as much a decision, as it is a way of life...
I doubt that Grit doesn't care...quite the opposite I would imagine...
It's because it has been given to a higher power to deal with.
It's not that I don't still love and care what happens to my Ex..
It's because I loved her enough to allow her to live HER choices, and find HER happiness...
If I did not admit that love, then I would be no different than what she has become.
My words would hold no more truth than her words..
My lies would be just as existent as her lies have been..
