Originally Posted By: AntoniaB


I think this is why for so many in MLC the only real wakeup call for them is if they go on this so-called journey and it backfires royally on them and they run out of places to hide. I hid for a long time till he left me. That's why in the end, as sad as I am about losing him, what he did to me made me a better person. Sad, but true. I had to be betrayed to grow.


Antonia! I think I was going through my own MLC at the same time and H betraying me is what woke me up. In looking at my own behaviors and self reflection, I was definately in MLC. Heck, I got a tattoo two years ago and I think I have been in MLC since until H left. Crazy, isn't it. Sorry, didn't mean to hijack the thread.
Blessings!


Lorie
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When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.