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so what am I to do


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she seems to be obviously getting on with her life


^^^ This

Moving your life forward, is NOT giving up. It brings you closer to the person you want to be, whether that is with her in the future or not.

You ever see the movie (mini-series) Lonesome Dove?

Robert Duvall plays a character named 'Gus.' Great movie, great character. Anyways, he has a line:

It's not dying I'm talking about, it's living

That's what we should be doing. Living! The best we can.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.