I felt/feel much the same way that you do. And knowing better, read avidly anyone's experiences in order to get a sense of TIMELINE, when I know that really doesn't exist. I guess I am goal oriented. LOL
I was divorced one week ago today. As I said earlier, I am afraid he will always be too proudful to return, even if he does emerge from his tunnel. But for the moment, I am still her, watching quietly from the sidelines.
Sometimes that is all we have, and we have to protect ourselves.