I am frustrated but in a peaceful way watching my WAW go through it. She has moved out and is gone for all intents and purposes. The only thing I can tell you is as a former MLC'er. The MLC'er knows when they have made it through. The fog does lift and its almost like looking at life through new eyes. I remember hating my wife for quite a few months but didn't really know why couldn't explain and even if I did it would of sounded like BS.
I feel you pain. I've been through it and have an empathy for it but still find myself deciding whether I should stand or move on.
I have a whole new life now(GAL) but find myself cycling sometimes back to sadness. I think you just do the best you can. There are no garauntees and life is short.
Please understand there is really nothing you can do for a true MLC'er. there just isn't. They are lost.
Peace be with you, be gentle with yourself and move at your pace.
