your son has a point. What if this guy was an abusive drinker or psycho? Instead, he's kind to him...it could be much worse, and for many around here, it is.
You have let your emotions run your behavior so, how about doing that "where the head goes, the heart will follow" behavior from now on? At least try it. It's part of being an adult male. It's "manly" and attractive too.
good luck, I know this is much easier said than done.
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