85 Days

[Denver_2010]

but... W came to me back in February wanting to talk about the possibility of reconciliations!! I did never pressured her for that. In fact, SHE texted me, at that time, "I don't understand why you haven't tried to fix things... or even brought up a conversation about it, Denver" ... that text message was a few days before we first talked about reconciliation...

NOW 2 months later, the idea of real life is so difficult for her to contemplate that she falls for fantasy b.s. that OM throws at her?

I simply don't understand it. I don't.

Simple (but also MUCH easier to see when you're not in the middle of it, granted):

People tend to value what they don't have, more than what they do. And they tend to respond strongest to threat of loss.


Starsky

Yeah Starsky, that is a sad thing really. But it is true.

My W, however, cannot rely upon this idea that things will just 'sort themselves out'. It's like Lotus said, she is waiting for a bolt of lightening or some sort of magical sign that is going to help her decide what she wants to do with her life.

It just doesn't work like that. Life is making choices, decision... and working to make them as successful as possible.


BITS
Denver