My W has done the same. She has to blame someone for the kids feeling the way they do. She can't possibly imagine that it is because of her.
It's all about blame.
My sons want nothing to do with W. Guess who get's the blame? Me.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
