Thanks awest1217, I agree that she needs to work through this in her own way. I am trying to stand tall but honestly I feel a ganged up on when her friends are around. They dont say anything but man if looks could kill. I know I am more than deserving of all of this, still it [censored]. I havent really turned to any of my friends, not sure why. Most of my friends are hers as well and I am being shuned right now. (rightly so).....
If I am on the PC I try to position it so she can see the screen with out really looking hard to see it. When I do have to text I mention who I am texting and the subject, in a way that doesnt make it seem so obvious. I dont really achieve that but I work at why I am telling her who I am texting. Of course she has been texting alot and calling people and I havent even asked nor would I.
Not really sure why they OW contacted her, other than to get back at me. I had already stopped answering her text and emails before this happened and dont dare do it now. Not really important why she contacted W I guess.....but she did and now I have my mess to clean up. Hopefully the W allows me to clean it up. I dont want to move out but my wife is due some money from a family passing away which will give her some financial stability . I am afraid when that happens my days will be numbered in the house.
I hope to hear more from you awest, it good to get your view point on the matter since you have been there.
