Just read the obituary for FIL. It was really well written. When mentioning his family, all the married people had (spouse) between their first and last names. No mention of me…
God it hurt…
Sometimes it's the little things like that that hurt the most. I made sure that my W's name was listed in my mom's obit, even though she was the one who left. I wish your ILs had done the same for you out of common courtesy.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011