Piecing for us was like that kid's game Shoots & Ladders. He said he wanted me, the M, to stay etc. He still had a lot of things to smooth out so it left me feeling very unsure. The A was over, but in my estimation not really over when he said he wanted to stay. He played both sides against the middle for a few weeks.
It's all so complicated.
What did I do? I kept up the DB up...to the book. I went back to the person he fell in love with.
I didn't really think we were piecing until she had been gone (moved away) for 2 months. I think it was then that he started seeing how messed up it all was and looked at his behavior clearly.
When he started admitting some of his insights, that is when we could talk with more confidence about hoe WE wanted to proceed.
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
