The OM is back. W "re-friended" him on FB and has been messaging back & forth. The "no more contact with OM" lasted 9 days. I guess I shouldn't be surprised. Honestly, I feel...nothing. No anger. No sadness. Disappointment, maybe. We have gone 2 days without saying a word to each other. The woman I married is gone, I’m afraid, and replaced by this other person whom I do not know at all. I look at her and think, “I do not want to spend the rest of my life with this person.”


H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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