Can I close the door and leave it unlocked?

[ninelives]

These are emotions that come over you from time to time. Sometimes, the intellectual , logical you is in control and you see what has gone on and what the future is probably going to look like and that is without wife and marriage. Cant be sure, but probably. But these crazy things called emotions ente.

If only me and you Isalnder can live with the idea that our marriages are over and to put hope on a shelf way back in the closet and take it out ONLY if she wants that box opened.

In the meantime, we have to get healthy and really GAL. It happens in baby steps with some backslides along the way but it DOES happen. You know this to be true and so do I. We just have to REALLY accept the current SITCH that is mostly out of our control and be the STRONG people that anybody would love to have and even crazy to walk away from .

SOunds like you are having more and more glimpses to this type of thinking.

KUDOS.

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