OTM, Wii, a guy at my divorce rebuilding table -- which I'm late to -- had a good line a couple of weeks ago.
He said that I "need to get over" myself. It's yet another way of saying "move on."
That is a good line! Sometimes we can get caught up in navel gazing and forget there's a big world out there with lots of people and wonderful things to do. I think you're doing great in so many ways. You keep active and involved in things, try to look after yourself and your girls in a very difficult time for all of you. It's also OK to have those sad "what about me" feelings sometimes too. Grief is grief and I know with the recent loss of my Dad there are times it just hits and the best thing you can do is go for the ride and realize that the ride will change. It's the same with D, I think being balanced and allowing healthy grief is a good thing. But it's also important to carry on with life. Keep it up, CTH. I admire your attitude.
