Krit,

So sorry you have to be here. We can help though. We can help you stay strong and focused.

I've been DBing for over a year now. In fact, I didn't realize I was I in the very beginning. I only started suspecting my H's A after it was on the skids. Details...details... I started out in MLC section.

Anyway, I've been trying to catch up with Saffie's sitch because our stories are very similar and that is what lead me here to your thread. It sounds like you are like us in that the OW is a real piece of work! I let OW rent a lot of space in my head and I am just now able to get away from that more. It's hard. In fact this is the hardest thing I have ever done in my life! The only thing that could be worse (God forbid) is losing one of my kids.

I started a thread over in
Piecing Our Marriage Back Together Again
and it's titled Piecing- Group....hmmm... I'll put link here
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2152593#Post2152593

I thought it would be a good idea to have a thread where several of us could post and ask each other general questions so as to not interfere with someone's time of need on their thread. Not sure if that makes sense, but I can explain further if needed.

Saffie- I hope you come over. I have some questions and it seems you don't have a current thread going now.


M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29
S 22,21, 19
Bomb 4/10
It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013
We all have work to do


The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.