My S is 10 as well. It is incredibly hard for them. It's not fair at all - they don't get a vote in this whole thing. Us LBS'ers don't either, but it's so much harder on the kids. My parents D'd when I was 13 and I think I buried a lot of it to the point where I haven't remembered the total impact.
Glad you didn't have any tornadoes and you are OK.