This is a great example of needing to check things out with another and not just assume. Gosh....we are such good role models Jack! :-0

I'm learning so much on these boards as I read through everyone's sitches. It's very time consuming though!

As for piecing...I totally agree. Each R and M IS different. I know I just could not/would not settle for hiding my feelings in a R that is supposed to be open/honest. I did have to do that at first, in the beginning of piecing. I had to do DB techniques by the book because I wasn't sure where everything stood. NOW? I am wanting full disclosure and transparency. We are really a very different couple now. Whereas before we did a lot of independent activities etc. AND mostly by my choice. We are together for most off-working hours now. We are planning around each other more, checking our schedules, putting each other first (except when it comes to one of the boys of course) and that has been hard, but necessary and good. We were WAY too detached and disconnected.

Hey! I had a GREAT mother's day!

M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29
S 22,21, 19
Bomb 4/10
It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013
We all have work to do


The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.