Thanks greenblue for your post. The OM came on the scene after we split, and she says it was just going out for drinks! I am quite sure this only came about after we S, as the text and calls only started on 27/04, however that is not the point.
W hasn't really said much about y she is leaving, just that we don't make each other happy anymore, and that she feels I talk down to het at times. We have both got to take responsibility for the failure of our R.
I am staying home till Fri, then coming back when she has moved out. She can clearly see I am gal, as I have lost a stone and a half, got some new clothes, are looking good and doing new things. W commented this am if I had a new suit, but its just one I haven't worn for ages. I am also posting funny stuff on fb and have changed my profile pic and other stuff. When around her I have only been professional, not talked about r, m or d. I haven't asked any questions or started any conversations etc, and I know w is finding this strange. She is still not sleeping etc as there is a lot on her mind, she says. She also asked last night y I seemed happy.....
I am still waiting for db and dr to arrive, but will be going dark from Friday.
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more