I'm wondering if there is anyone on this board that ever thought that their spouse would ever or was even capable of doing something like this. I would have bet my life against it. Good thing I'm not a gambler. Never in a million years would I have ever suspected that my M would be in the mess it is in and that my W would be riding the crazy train
Tad I had no clue..... Came home from work for lunch.... Hubby was painting our house inside. He was taking a break sitting on the inside stairs talking to a fishing buddy, told his buddy he had to get off the phone that I was home from work. We hugged and joked a little. I said..."well since we have two homes right now (we were renting one because we were gonna sell our house, but changed our mind and decided to keep it....thus the painting), this would be a good time for you to kick me out"......I laughed and he said, very seriously..."I think if I wanted to leave you I would". Wow... I said "I was only kidding" he said "I know". We walked straight upstairs to where he was painting. His phone rang and he wouldn't answer it. I asked him why and he got defensive. After a couple minutes he stood up, looked at me and said ...."I want a divorce". I was like....what? He started crying.....said ...I love u but not in love with you bull crap. Didn't even want a trial separation, said he was 80 per cent sure he wanted a divorce. He said he always told me he would leave me before he cheated on me, and he was very close to cheating. Close?... Whatever. Anyway.....no i had no clue it was coming. He had said a few days before that he couldn't imagine living without me and our son in his life. Guess he changed his mind overnight about me huh.
