When are you moving? Is it still a place you are looking forward to living in? If I recall, the plan was sort of putting interests, jobs or school off until you relocated there. How are the plans for that move coming along? What is her attitude about the move? (Any plans for her new life there? Like school, a job, etc)
Just thought I'd check in on that issue.
Still rooting for you but still hoping you don't put your needs on the shelf forever. Whatever her baggage is, doesn't mean your needs go unfilled indefinitely. You deserve to be loved like a husband. You are in counselling...at some point she will have to be. There's just no way that she's going to solve this multi-dimensional problem on her own. (No one could).
good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
