Tryin to do what works

[NEmoose43]

Islander, 9, JB, T2T, thanks so much. Guys, I really would not being handling this anywhere near as well as I am (which ain't that well, but still!) without your support.

Today actually ended up being a pretty good day. Had a great day at work, stayed really busy which always helps. W texted me throughout the day, just small talk, joking and flirting a bit too. At one point she asked me if I had gotten an email from the yoga center we both go to about a women's class on enhancing sexuality...I did not fall for that bait, and it struck me as odd that she even brought it up since we haven't been remotely physical for the last two months. Whatever, not reading into it, just kinda came out of the blue.

Later on, she texted me to say she was having coffee with two of her classmates, one of whom I had helped out during a study she was doing for her Masters thesis. Basically, W had gone to participate in the study and forgot to bring a piece of info that her friend absolutely needed for her research...I managed to figure out what she needed in W's papers and her friend was ecstatic about it and said she owed me at least two beers. One for finding the info, and the second for the fact that it happened at 6 in the morning. Anyway, W mentioned that friend was there and I said I wanted to cash in those beers at some point. W said "Funny, we're talking about that right now. We'll have to go out with her and her BF after the conference in Denver."

So here we go again with the talking about future plans...I've learned to expect it though folks, again, not reading anything into it, just reporting here.

Talked to W for a few minutes to say goodnight, nothing exciting. Pretty proud of myself that I didn't initiate any of the contact today, and I actually ended all of the convos myself.

Baby steps boys and girls. Baby steps.