KD is right though. A friend of mine told me a while back, "Moose, you don't have D papers in your hands. And even then, there's a 90 day waiting period in this state...you have time, use it."
So I'm going to tell you the same thing. YOU have time...use it! A lot of the vets have told me that once the actual D process starts, the reality can set in for your W. Having to actually work on it can serve as a real wake up call.
But the other side of the coin is that we can't think that way. You and I both know we have to focus on ourselves. Listen to KD...GAL man. I know, it's easy for me to say and I'm struggling with the same thing right now...but it's what we have to do.
Keep your head up Hos.
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11
