Islander, I gotta agree with JB on this one. I want to be able to say that I did everything possible to try and save this M, both for myself and for my W...honestly, we've even talked about it during a convo about what marriage meant to us.
Stay strong man, I think what you felt is really part of the process...part of this detachment that we're all trying to maintain. Maybe once we all come to the realization that you did today, maybe that makes it easier for us to stay patient until she DOES realize that she might need to work to get YOU back.
I think that's what we're all hoping for...
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11