Denver, I feel for everything you are going through as our sitches are similar. I still 'touch the burner' with snooping, but very infrequently now. I guess I figured out pain hurts smile

One of the hardest things I've ever dealt with was seeing the ILY from OM to W on her cell phone. That was last summer and I don't know if he's ever said it again because I stopped looking. Thankfully, W has told me she doesn't love OM, but really it doesn't matter as it doesn't change anything I need to do.

BTW, Let It Be is one of my favourite songs and was part of a 'mix tape' cd collection I made for W in the early days of our problems. I think the mix tape idea was more for me to process things than for her, but still...

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011