I've had a whole day to think about last nights 3 hour phone conversation with STBX. Although we basically agreed to stay with current plan of selling house and divorcing next July, one of the last things she said was "I (or we?) can't continue to live like this, something has to change".
I am trying to see that as a postive thing - in that the change could be in me/us. Yep....I never give up....even after 6 years.
