We are told not to look at the past, but press forward towards the future! Philippians 3:13, "...this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,"
Once God healed me from the bitterness, anger, resentment etc I couldn't look in the past anymore. I could only look forward. I don't know how to describe it, but it was as if the past didn't exist anymore. I guess this is why it is so easy now to have a DO OVER with my h, because I really can't remember the past 4 years. God can really heal our marriages, but only if it's his will and on his timing.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"