Greenblue: Man, it sure feels over now that she's started trying to divide property for divorce. I don't see her changing her mind. She's among a coterie of friends who will validate her choices.
I am absolutely desolate now. Aside from losing the love of my life to temporary insanity, I stand to lose half my pension, half my savings, and thousands in legal fees and refinancing. And there appears to be nothing I can do--funding her degrees apparently will count for exactly jack.
No idea how to proceed except with the D, which is not what I want.