Can I close the door and leave it unlocked?

[islander]

It's not as easy for me. I have always supported my W in whatever she wanted to do, I trusted her and stood by her. Her comment was that I was not affectionate enough with her, did not tell her how beautiful she was enough, and did not talk about my feelings enough with her. Now I can't do those things, all pursuing behavior, she is not receptive to them, and when I did bf the bomb, she said I was smothering her.

So I am stuck with my 180s. Now I can just be the best person that I can be. Her other complaint was that I never wanted to go out and do things. I told her that it wasn't that I didn't want to do things, I didn't want to blow our money...she made more than me and sometimes made comments that I didn't make enough or that my checks were small. They are small after child support.

So, now I have made freinds with several of our neighbors and do stuff with them. She does not get to see this. I don't know that have a lot of hope right now, but I am not giving up.